Okay, you're probably rolling your eyes 'Shut the hell up about your freaking birthday already!'. Just this laaaaaaast one. I MUST! I WILL!
Looking what my sister got me! A Charles & Keith bag *squeals* It's gorgeous and just totally compliments me :P I toss it over my shoulders... INSTANT GLAMOURPUSS!
So, my BFF Lata is in the United States... it will be the first BDay me and Tumor would spend without her. AT LEAST THAT'S WHAT WE THOUGHT! From the ashes, like a pheonix... look what was delivered to me the next morning!!!
CUPPIE CAKES...
ELECTRONICS ENGINEER EDITION!!!
Seriously... it was just as good as it looked! I didn't have the heart to take even a nibble! THAT LASTED ABOUT A SECOND... I dove right in and chewed a whole chunk... oooooh, just how I liked it. Not too sweet, moist, CHOCOLATEY, with the right amount of icing :D
*LED*
*Resistor*
* Circuit *
*PIGGIE!* See the sugar around the edges... so margarita like :))
*Row 1*
*Row 2*
*Row 3*
* Row 4 * See... some have dark brown bottoms (chocolate) and some are lighter (vanilla) It's like a surprise with every bite :D
Speechless, is what I was.
Question is: How will I top a thoughtful present like that? *major hugs*
I believe that the people that read my blog comprise of my closest friends. People that have known me as nerdy primary school Prem, notorious bimbo high school Prem, half-nerdy foundation studies Prem, full blown nerd undergraduate Prem and lastly today I stand before you, I think a pretty nice mesh of crazy and nerd.
I know that many women relate to my blog being that they feel like a free spirit trapped in a world of rules and regulation. I have countlessly challenged the system with small acts of rebellion be it not freaking passing up my assignment, taking MC and the supplementary exam as my classmates shake their heads in disapproval or always... ALWAYS coming to class late.
All in all, I have felt the sense of knowing who I was. I knew I wasn't the average geek engineer but I knew I was born to be one. Through it all, thick and thin, I have stood by myself. YOU HAVE STOOD BY ME. My pals of Sri Petaling, girls of Sri Aman, engineers of MMU and lastly scholars of UM. I have had the most sinking feeling in my stomach for the past 3 weeks, insanely checking the online examination result. THIS TIME, I GAVE IT MY ALL :D
I just said 'Please not on my birthday'... I swear I just knew. I may come across sounding like the biggest head ever but I have to... MUST thank those that matter to me. I, PREMEELA NATHAN STAND BEFORE YOU WITH A FIRST CLASS, MASTER OF ENGINEERING (TELECOMMUNICATIONS) I am still in shock. I didn't know if I'd make it. IT WAS THE TOUGHEST THING I HAVE EVER DONE.
I bless my lucky stars for the friends I have. Prema, Gaya for just being my sisters from another mother. Porkchop and Pals. DuDuButt and Pals. My UM boys. Thank you all for the constant support. I take my hat off to all my employers that gave me the months off just to study at the expense of their education. Beyond gratitude to my family thatwas with me through every moment. My father that slept so late and woke up so very early for 2 years, even losing weight through all the stress just so I could study in the lab :)) My mum for all the food she'd send me now and then through the nights. My sister for being the only one who understands the effort and sacrifice that goes into an honour student and has always believed in the power of my brain. Snuffles, for his wet kisses and stress relieving belly scratches.
So there, I had a sinking feeling in my gut for 7 years. May not be a big deal to some but it was my everything. I do not believe in coming second. Would I make it or not? Would I get the results allowing me to apply for scholarships? Would I prove all the haters wrong? Would I screw this one up? Seems not :D
AGAIN... WORDS DO NOT SUFFICE THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART
Can't believe you spent all that time making this! We miss you too :))
ps: I woke up this morning and was greeted by this... if I may say so myself... FANTASTIC work of art! My years in MMU, Alpha - Epsilon. There are so many memories, how does one choose! I never... never had a boring birthday :D
So, I turn 25 in a few hours *woohooo pressies*. Here's the customary 'What I did as a 24 year old' list:
1. I rode a horse up a volcano! Looked into its flaming red center and laughed in the face of danger! Come on... High five... How awesome is that!
2. I held my first lecture. My first tutorial. Antenna Theory ain't no piece of cake, sista. But in all seriousness, I always thought I belonged in a Broadway play and this comes a close second in terms of adrenaline rush.
3. I BOUGHT MY CAR!!! I saved and saved. Baby was meant for me. Not too flashy that I felt the money would be better spent elsewhere and yet not too cheap that I clearly looked 'un-diva-licious' in it.
4. I fell flat, academically, the worst since 2002, didn't want to do it anymore (Why me? Why can't I just settle too?) and then got reinspired to go on ( Kiss my chutney... I will go the distance, Hercules style!) .
5. I met so many new people,they could fit into a tiny country. Funny how people open up to you once they feel you genuinely want to listen to what they have to say. My most memorable debate will be for 5 hours with the military, police, toilet cleaner and restaurant owners of Jakarta' s airport.
6. I met a man. I once knew extremely well. I looked at him and saw who I once was, who I no longer am. I was just mortified at times 'Really?'. Its all helped me realise... seems my taste in men have varied tremendously this year. It isn't who you like... it's who is the right fit for you.
7. I now know, SHOPPING IN MSIA IS A RIPP OFF! I've just been tossing my money off at malls here and there, none the wiser. Hell yeah paying for the flight to Bangkok/Bandung/India/China is cheaper!
8. I got my BFF, PDA... it is my sugar pie honey buns to my loooong rides up and down Peejay and KL. Toying with it has helped me learn more about the telecommunication industry. So see, it's a career buy :P
9. I joined a gym. What has the gym done for me? I could spend the hours making myself into what the media perceives to be beautiful... or, I could just realise THE WHISTLES DON'T LIE... LORI HONKS DON'T LIE... PEEEWHHEEETS DON'T LIE... Chunky or smooth, sexy is confidence. Oh yes, I deeply adore yoga. I say... be fit... but toss fun into the package.
10. I got my first paycheck! I've become a proper staff of University Malaya :)) Hah, never would have predicted that one.
11. Got on a plane! Yeap, you heard me right. I could never afford it until now. Did I mention that my parents do not believe in being the slightest bit charitable.
12. The worst pickup line from a Malaysian man. As a single girl in the city, it is like men can smell you a mile away. They prey in packs and attack solo. 'Hey beautiful, nice hair... What are you? 20?... My place is nearby... Wanna do me a sexual favour?'. I WANTED TO KICK HIM IN HIS GOD GIVEN NUTS SO HE'D NEVER BE ABLE TO SPREAD HIS SEED.
13. At last, back in the city, gets invites to cool parties. I'll leave it as... no judgement to those who find it fun. All that jazz isn't my scene. I surrender, Premmy no likey. Fact, Premmy never likey. Rather hang with my BFF's :P
14. Began a cause that is close to my heart. Weeee, my dad and I are in the process of expanding our free library in Klang, Selangor for the underpriviledged children. We've got a bigger space thanks to a generous donour. I'm thinking walls filled with colour and candy canes :) DONATE USED BOOKS! KNOWLEDGE IS POWER! Reach me at : prem_84@hotmail.com to help.
15. Obviously new food! Mmmmm, pick of the year... pad thai noodles... deelish!
16. I SAW COLDPLAY LIVE... Beat that! Seriously, whenever I feel the lack of fun. I play 'Lovers in Japan' and whoooosh I'm there again, hopping up and down the chair with my tiny feet with paper butterflies falling down my face.
17. I became less of a nice person. It's getting difficult with the whole 'Help all, Love all' ... when some clearly were born with the jackass gene. I always know I should do what I can to help but more than often, people are not as willing to toss in a helping hand in return. No appriciation what so ever. I still do what I can, just not as often as I used to.
18. Got in touch with spirituality.All that singing and praying won't get you anywhere without your own effort... DUH! But what I do believe is being happy, at peace with what is my normal life, love for those important to me, be a good person, doing good with issues that are close to my heart.
19. Perfected the art of table sleeping. As a lab rat. I now have upgraded. Now... I have pillows and toss three chairs together to make a bed. Problem is, as I sleep... either the chair for my head or my legs rolls in different directions.
20. Responsibity hits me like a ton of bricks. It isn't a picnic when you know you must succeed against all odds. People depend on it. I'm going to have kids one day! How the hell will I shop then? I'm not too 'OMG', just more aware.
21. Look at my ginormous brain, not my ginormous boobs. Eyes up here buster. It is a constant daily battle. Sounds mundane to the average male that seems to think it is some form of flattery. It is shallow behaviour. It is uncomfortable. It is not right. What do you do when some professionals still perceive a woman to be less capable?
22. Sat for my last exam paper ever! PhD... watch out! Here I comeeeeee....! Wish me luck :D
23. My potrait? Well, when me and Lata sat down to get our caricatures drawn, the crowd started to build up. We sat on the tiniest stools and laughed our heads off. Nice to see, Premeela Nathan... first impression... big boobs, big booty, men. TQ.
24. Emergency Ward. Erm, I think it is safe to say that we all remember this one. Bimbo likes ring, Bimbo allergic to ring, Bimbo finger swells, Bimbo lands in ER slicing through huge metal ring ON HER OWN because she's an engineer! WTH!
25. I've... visited apple farms, danced in the moonlight, watched men create art, temples, jumped up and down boats, studied many paintings, lied in the sand/grass/mud/horse poo, done the booty shake across hostels, royal houses, lakes, seas, mountains, walked barefoot across ancient lands because my boots hurt too much, watched he-she cabaret dancers that clearly put real women to shame, went to a 'pingpong' show and was deeply sad for the girls that have no choice, felt the wet trunk of elephants, stroked the head of a ilama, nearly got my eyes pecked out by an ostrich, jeep ride in sheer darkness an inch away from mountain cliffs, entered a submarine, Disney on Ice, spent time alone in a huge and slightly creepy telecom museum, accidentally ate 'sup buntut'... clearly too much to put into a 25 list :))
If any of those things didn't happen I never... I swear... NEVER... would have ended up with the BEST JOB IN THE WHOLE WORLD! All in all, I'm pretty satisfied with the end of 24 years old Premeela. I will sit right here and await my chariot filled with presents *giggles like school girl... I welcome 25 with arms wide open and have an even more ADVENTURE/GLORY/ FUN year planned :) To me... muuuuaaaahhh. TO YOU... THANK YOU WITH ALL MY HEART FOR ENRICHING MY LIFE :D
Dear Tumor,
Here comes 28th May again... It's been 7 years... another BDay together. Have a splendid day, as always trying to create enough sympathy to ensure maximum presents :))
WTH! I still don't have my ATM card. That means I am broke... literally broke!!! Dad says I can't be trusted with a credit card. I FEEL LIKE A 16 YEAR OLD SPOILT BRAT THAT THE HOLY POWERS HAVE DECIDED SHOULDN'T HAVE HER OWN MONEY! I IZ SCREWED! *stomps feet* I'm using my super nice/ adorable/ charming voice on the fon with mummy 'Come la... we go buy my BDay dress'. Hahah... mum roped in... SUCCESS!!!
Sheesh, her limit on $ so much lower than mine. Pray for a good sale. I'm thinking floral dress, belted... with gorgeous studded heels. Walking all around 1U in the weekend with girls in floral skirts everywhere has got me in the mood... WISH ME LUCK :D
What I wore today (Again, because I'm super proud of my cheap ways )
Basic Lycra top : Zara (50%) [Practically half my wardrobe is from ZARA... she lurves it!] Flower Power: The Curve Bazaar White Clincher: Dramatic Bombshell (Online RM5!) High waisted skirt: Chopped off cheap Bangkok dress :)) Red Brick Studded heels: Mezzanine All in all, my whole outfit cost about the same as my shoes :P
ps: I cannot bear to sit in a spot any longer. I need to get out. Stop calling me and stressing me out further. When the results are out, we'll all know. Crap, I'm scared shitless.
pps: OMG... my cousin bro came all the way to my house to share with us his discovery of one of the super yummy laksa he just ate. Head down to Jalan Gasing (Hell yeah, just down the road from UM Peejay entrance), Ipoh Chicken Rice for delicious, thick, most fluffy fishball, creamy, most spicy laksa I've had. Though I only got few sips :)) Aaaaaah,it's so hard to get super spicy sambal these days*Sorry, my Muslim friends... it is non halal*
It's a girls night out... in my case tonight it's with mum :)) TGIF has reduced the price of their regular set meals for the previous RM39.90 to RM29.90. That screams fabulous for amma and me because that means we order one set and share so that's about RM14.45 perpax! Oh yeah, kids eat free everyday too. YEAY! Recessionista all the way!
We have the Fish and Chips and the Boneless Chicken Wings. Mind you they sound like heart blockers if you compare them with the usuals but here, it is surprisingly light in flour and absolutely non oily :) I'm usually more of a grilled chicken with yummy sauce kinda girl so it was nice to have the alternative.
I highly recommend a visit especially for a night out with friends. It's one of those places I've been to since I was in primary school (Woot...woot! Sri Petaling!) and am still loving it ;D
ps: We end the night like a bunch of snotty PeeJay-ians at the Starbucks down the road from my house. Delish Hot Latte for dad, Hot Choc for mum and Green Tea Frapp for me. Perfect for a rainy day. The sofas were soooo comfy, I tore off my heels and slided into its comfy arms. But seriously, come on.... it's just a cup of coffee... why does 'The Starbucks Experience' have to come with such a huge price tag?
pps: Hilarious moment of the night. Whenever we head to TGIF at 1U, waiters get their 'extreme flirt on' and yaadah yaadah with me and my sister being young women and all. Tonight, we head home and the head waiter screams 'Goodnight girls, *wink wink* Have a great night!'... What do you mean girls? SHE'S MY MUM! Alas, seems its not me that they want. My mum was all like giggle giggle and then proceeds to do her Beyonce strut out of TGIF. Another moment to remind me who holds the throne in this house. Just so you know this happens all the freaking time... 'Your sister ah? MOTHER? Can't be ... so young'. Me <--- Rolls eyes
* Part 2 - UNESCO Historical Park - Sukhothai - North Thailand *
On how to get to the park... here's how we went about getting there. We took a train ride from Ayuthaya to Pitsanulok which I highly DO NOT recommend... read my previous entries to know why! I suggest take a bus to Pitsanulok and then head to the main bus station and hop on a tour bus straight to Sukhothai. It's generally more expensive than the train but soooo worth the comfort. Upon reaching there, the usual tour guides scouting for tourist will round up around you. Hop into the cheapest and most comfortable one and prepare to blow your mind!
Here are the shots of The Historical Park... dum dum dum... drumroll... NOW... BASK IN ITS GLORY.... *Rockstar guitar riff...
You must get there early because theentrance fee is pretty steepand they close by evening. If you want to be able to cover the entire park within closing time, I suggest heading there early morning.
All I can say is... so far everything else I have seen pales in comparison... Mt.Bromo of Indon comes a close second but this was like stepping into another world... another era... times when greatness was common... the structures were so well carved, so well designed, filled with heart and yet so peaceful at the same time.
If you are capable of cycling, you could try renting a bike and saving a bundle load of money. Haih, darn BooBoo and her inability to cycle!
I absolutely recommend this place to those searching for a place to find inspiration. It is the perfect place to head to when you're trying to figure life out whatever religion you choose to follow. The point we all hit when we are in our 20s. You feel like you can conquer anything... be anything... and yes, be happy without the need to drive a fancy car, live in a giant house, not beeebooop on the PDA all day long and just follow your heart.
ps: Being an engineer can get pretty black and white/ monotonous at times if you let it. I feel the regular 'nerd' (hahah, braces, perfectly combed hair, huge specs, lives for the internet) lacks imagination. I think a change is upon us.
In my time in the world of science, I've met so very many worker ants that just do what the average person is supposed to do. The irony is being in this industry has also open the door for me to meet so many engineers that share my thoughts, ambitions, comfortable being the 'new age nerd' like me and are beyond fantastic people.Travelling inspires me but the people around me show me that being myself is super cool! Like DuDu once told me 'She never knew there were DuDu clones like her out there'. Like Lata 'You think I IZ STUPID WOMAN cos I IZ CUTE... watch me'. Like Porkchop ' Bah, what's this hump compared to climbing a volcano?'. Like Gaya 'We are ants, Prem... toss us a hurdle... we'll climb over it!'. My family 'You want the chance to do it... be the best!'.
That is one of the many greats that came out of my time as a student in MMU and UM. It is now coming to an end. I truly do believe that to be a great inventor or teacher you must have creativity, smarts, wisely chosen friends, character, strength, determination not fabulous grades or great work ethic... through it all I'm still learning :)
* Part 1 - UNESCO Historical Park - Sukhothai - North Thailand *
If there is one thing that will always bind my sister and me is our trip to legendary UNESCO historical park, Sukhothai.
pssssst: It came out in The Star last week... I was like 'I hopped here... jumped there... I WAS THERE!'
Tips on extremely fast paced yet uber cheap backpacking trips:
1. Always take a person with the same level of stamina/determination/ curiosity/optimism as you.
The years of mall shopping from 10am- 10pm have made me an extremely productive person. Few people fit my list, my sister is one of them fortunately :P I refuse to waste the day snoring or spending time in the hotel. This applies to the importance of having the same interest as you as well! Some clearly prefer the city / beach and a more relaxed slow paced trip... whereas this may bore the hell out of those seeking adventure and GLOOOOORRRYYY! Oh yeah, WARNING... FIGHTS ARE INEVITABLE!
2. Pack food.
As you travel at the speed of light, spending time on munching food in restaurants become secondary in importance. My sister, alot of my friends are vegetarians. Thus, most important tip... to keep energy levels up, head to your local 7/11 (Minimart) and stock up on basic grain bread + cheese + milk of flavour of choice. We always had food in our backpacks. Trust me, it affects your energy level... so eat up!
3. Have no shame, do not be afraid though you have a vagina and lack of muscle definition.
When travelling across countries where the Malaysian currency fares better. DO NOT... DO NOT... feel that you have to spend more than the average local on anything. They tend to feel that it is perfectly alright to scam you of money. Stand your ground, fight for your $$$, do not be girly, scream if you must! Always bargain. Always play the 'I am only a student...poor' card. Heheh, which sadly is true for BooBoo and me's case :))
4. Plan plan plan Basically use your ginormous brain
The difference with fast paced, budget conscious trips is... you MUST plan weeks ahead. It takes time to hunt for what is best worth your money. You need to plan accommodation, food hotspots, places to visit, transport and financial breakdown. A great tip is: Hunt down the country's local tour agents, go through their itineraries and plan yours the same except MUCH MUCH cheaper :P Most people waste money on hotels, I suggest guest houses that are trustworthy or hostels run by the government itself :) To save on transport, try to spend the night close to a train or bustop that allows you easy access. Most countries have special deals when it comes to train rides for tourists. Ask the local counter.
5. Stop if you must.
I am an energizer bunny. Always was, always will be. It is perfectly alright to plan a jam packed itinerary for a 3 day trip leaving you to recuperate at home. On trips that go on for more than a week, take time out to rest and eat well. I have constantly faced burnout thinking my body could go on for days with lack of rest. You will feel sluggish or even worse, fall ill. I clearly will not be making this mistake on my two week day trip to Vietnam and Cambodia!
6. Know where the local hospital, airport, trainstations, bustops, embassy is.
I cannot further stress this tip! Backpackers tend to fall into tricky situations :)) You are a foreigner and people may not give a crap if you are ill or stranded. Have backup plans and extra cash in hand for cases of emergency. I swear every single scenario has happened to me. Missed a flight? check... Gravely ill? check... Lost? check... No cash? check!
ps: That is us stranded in Bangkok after missing our flight (not our bloody fault) prompting my sister to snore across chairs like the homeless people we became. We had close to nothing in cash, the ATM destroyed my card. We didn't know when we'd be back home. Survived on Hup Seng crackers and huge mineral water bottle. I stayed awake and kept guard while soothing my anger with Gandhi's autobiography. Definitely one of my most challenging/ life defining moments.
The best tip I can divulge is...
BACKPACK ACROSS ASIA WHILE YOU'RE YOUNG!
Get your arse off that desk... Jump away from that computer... Go explore... Broaden your horizons and mind. Intelligence comes with perspective. Learn, touch, feel, smell, see. Grab every free moment. You need the strength and speed that only comes with youth! Make sure you exercise before any major trip as well. Go to yoga or even basic jogging. Keeps you fit and flexible enough for all that bouncing and hopping.
Bah, beaches and cities can wait when I'm less of a bunny though I doubt that day will come :))
* Coffee World - Khao San Road - Bangkok - Thailand *
Baaaack to my second trip across Thailand... that was after my trip to Spore, after Thailand, after Indon, before Spore... It's just been a few hours after my dreaded asthma attack... my father screams on the fon 'Don't move, don't step out, just come home'. Thing is, coming home is in 2 days time :P I AM SOOOOO NOT STAYING IN! I know... I was born super stubborn.
We had the whole day planned, the Chaopraya river cruise... leading us to Chinatown, The Golden Palace, more Wats (temples)... all down the toilet. We'd have to miss it all... Needless to say I was very pissed!
I spend the whole day just resting and keeping my airways open. My sister heads out to have the time of her life at the legendary backpackers alley, Khao San Road. MY DAD BACKPACKED THERE WHEN HE WAS MY AGE TOO! I cannot bear to be left out, so I heave myself off the bed and put on a dress. Off we go, walking in snail speed, I really was struggling to walk being still jittery from the drugs... BUT I MUST HAVE A HOT DRINK! Thus, to Coffee World for extremely yummy hot caramel macchiato of course!
The coffee was great and uber cheap as all things in Bangkok:)) Though the environment is quite cozy, I recommend an order, tapao, walk about and shop at Khao San Road. The dresses are insanely cheap! Fits UK size 4-12 most of it. RM 20-25 max. I BOUGHT THREE *hangs head down in shame again. I definitely will be heading back there in the future as a girl that has just been spoilt with choice when it comes to coffee!
ps: After drinking coffee across Asia (God, Indon has the worst coffee but the best tea... Thai, best coffee... meh, tea! Spore, average since it's the same as KL) ... I've hated splurging on Starbucks except when it's their rare Green Tea Frapp. Everything else is overpriced crap. Yes, I said it. Yes,I've been drinking there since I was 13ish. I didn't know better.
pps: I cannot wait for my ultimate fave coffee! VIETNAM COFFEE IN 2 WEEKS! Wonder if Cambodians drink coffee too :))
*In small voice* : Lata... Gaya's off to Aussie too... the application says yes... the two of you... my ultimate BFFs... making your mark in the world. I worry, will I accomplish what you two have strived so hard for... or will I be the one to be left behind instead? It'll be hard... she's going to be gone too. I choose not to be discouraged... I'll be inspired instead :D
pssst: Sorry for the lack of clarity, mobile uploads!
78, Jalan Damai Off Jalan Ampang 55000 KL TEL:6012-6692562
So I've just completed teaching two of the most notorious kids I know... my boyboy Farris (erm, he's a man now, most macho voice, a whole head taller than me, physically abuses the hell out of me) ... my mini girly buddy Sannah that is a total evil genius just like mua when I was her age :P
Review... food was well prepared, kebab well seasoned, chicken very moist, the only thing I absolutely disliked was the pickled vegetables. They even have lil rooms that you can bring your family to :) The issue is, the waiters are extremely slow and inefficient.
Why did I love this spot? The green tea with mint was beyond heavenly. I'm a girl that loves hot beverages. I hate carbonated/juice/funny coloured drinks. Thus, I take my hot sips seriously. I really enjoyed their presentation of the tea. It comes in a pot, left to settle for a few minutes and then poured into mini glasses with detailed carvings much to my delight! It is said to reduce the oil intake in the human body. Mostly, I adored the whiff of mint you get before taking each sip. It allows a great opportunity to mingle and chat.
Mint tea Recipe:
10 fresh mint sprigs, plus 4 for garnish 3 teaspoons green tea 3 tablespoons sugar 4 cups water Boil water.
Pour a small amount in teapot and swish around to warm the pot. Combine the mint and green tea and sugar in the teapot, then fill it with the rest of the hot water. Let tea brew, stirring the leaves once or twice, for 3 minutes. Pour tea through a tea strainer into glass teacups to serve. Garnish with remianing 4 sprigs of mint.
ps: Love this song :)
Oh make some big jumps, big jumps, You're afraid to break some bones. Come on make some big jumps, big jumps, Life is yours alone. You hold your head up, your head up high, like you think I do.
* Ikano - Tesco - The Curve - Ikea - The whole shebang *
The fact of the matter is... being a Peejay girl means bowing down to the new hotspot that has taken the throne of OU... Mutiara Damansara :)
What I wore today... just because I AM perasan/vainpot :P (also I am super proud of my recessionista ways)
Skirt: Ruffled chiffon skirt, Dorothy Perkins (70% off) Top: Basic Lycra Purple, Ruffey (Buy 2 for 1) Shoes: Gorgeous black satin flowered with silver heels, Sole Lover (70% off!) Belt: Bronze, online shop Dramatic Bombshell (Buy 2 for 1)
This mamak shop is situated right next to Tesco, the usual hang out spot when me and high school buddies go to snack cheap. Review... reasonably priced, no tax, family hang out, pretty clean and the curry is super thick n yummy! Have it with thosai or puree :D
ps: Since you asked, here is my advice for the average Indian curvy lass. You were born as such thus have no shame. The sexiest thing a woman can own, thin or chubby, tall or short is CONFIDENCE! Never ever try to hide your fabulous god given features underneath layers of clothing like so many Indian girls do. The other extreme is, for god sakes, spaghetti straps or halter tops WILL make you skanky having assets and all. Chubby has its extreme perks.You have boobs. You have a fantastic arse. Work it, sista!
The question is working what your mama gave you with the right fit. My fave, belts are the best investment for girls with a smaller waist so it defines the hourglass shape :) Dresses were made for girls with curves. You can never go wrong with basic tees (get all block colours) that aren't too low in the neck region being booby and all. The skirt is beyond dreamy...swishes perfectly as you walk... you can wear it high waisted + belted for mall trips with the girls, slightly short or I've chosen to let it sit slightly lower by the hips, more decent for family supper :)) Lastly, accessorise with jewellery and the perfect bag. Have fun!
* Part 4: Mother's Day Extravaganza - Melaka - Malaysia *
The next stop was the Chetti Temple. This temple is so simple and homey. Looking around, the Chetti people have set up homes all around it. The kids and adults pop out and stare at us just as much as we were gazing at them... Guess they haven't met so many Ceyloneses in one go :)) It isn't as grand as the previous temple but you get a feel of community and the contribution they have made in maintaining this temple to this day.
pssst: Erm, not to seem disrespectful but... I think I now know why Indian men are beyond obsessed with boobies! It's like every female statue has a ginormous rack!
For the brown community, DO NOT confuse this community with the Chettiar (usually associated with money :P) people, this Chetti clan comprises of Hindhus that have long married the local people of Melaka be it Malay, Chinese or Indian thus producing extremely unique looking features. Just take a walk around and read little snippets of their history in Melaka.
Lastly, night falls and we head out to the wind of the sea for dinner. The Portugese settlement in Melaka previously just laid out on the bare land funds its community through the extremely delicious meals prepared by stalls. Now, the government has built a proper eating area that is just fabulous.
We sit, eat, crunch on crabs and sit by the sea before jetting back to life in the city :)
* Part 3: Mother's Day Extravaganza - Melaka - Malaysia *
psssst: This picture above pretty much sums up the relationship me and my mum have... me scrambling to follow in my heels as I make sure my hair doesn't fly out of shape... and her not giving a crap if I get into the car or not! God, I told her not to wear the fashion no-no hat! Oh Nathan women, vanity is thy name! This classic shot is courtesy of Rupster *clap clap
TEMPLE TOUR! KANDIAH STYLE :))
This temple is just a class above anything I've seen. The art is just a feast for the eyes whether you're Hindhu or not. Only till later did I find out that this particular temple is the second largest temple in South East Asia. The paintings and carvings were hand painted by artists from Tamil Nadu. We sat together by the steps as a family and shared thoughts and basked in the sunlight.
Located close to a Chinese Buddist temple, one notices the Chinese community stopping by for a serene trip into the temple as well. Erm, what has happened Kuala Lumpur?
Obligated shot of elephants for the Lata! Lookie... it's pink too :)
Next up... The Chetti community!
ps: It's like I cannot be stopped... I bought another absolutely gorgeous black satin bedazzled heels from The Gardens today *runs away in pure shame. S.A.V.E M.E!
* Part 2: Mother's Day Extravaganza - Melaka - Malaysia *
My mum is TOTALLY PISSED OFF... calls my sis up in Cyber and wails 'This is the worst Mother's Day Eeeeeevvvveeeeerrrr!'. I know what will save the day! F.O.O.D!
We head down to Jonker Street and hop into our fav restaurant there, Jonker Desserts. It's right next to the huge arch that says Jonker. The thickest laksa one will ever have is served Nyonya style here. Pity, it was all gone by the time we got there! So just cendol instead... I on the other hand stock up on some yummy gula melaka to dip a teaspoon of it in my homemade coffee *droool
I have to say the thing that draws me to Melaka isn't just the fact that I consider it my 'kampung' having lived there for a year during pre-uni but the feel of the entire state. It has an old school charm once you head off to hidden spots away from the average tourist areas This particular shop has spectacular historic tid bits on its wall and across its shelfs. I love sitting there and sipping a bowl of cendol with my family.
pssst:Thats my new gorgeous Dorothy Perkins red tulip skirt (50% off) thats all in the rage these days
Red studded heels fromMezzanine online blogshop (I HEART BLOGSHOPS), Hoochiemama red belt from Chatuchak Bangkok (erm, uber cheap) ... love it!
Now we regroup, the Kandiah clan is complete... we head of for a day of History of Hinduism in Melaka! I never knew... my aunts and dad are avid history buffs and manage to scout out South East Asia's 2nd largest temple! The Beyond Magnifique! It's a marvel for the average art lover with equisite paintings and carvings all around. The beyond lifesize statues take your breathe away. I've never seen anything like it in KL.
ps: I'm pretty, men generally like me... but this is one of my mums classic quote 'You two think its annoying men stare at you? Stalked? I was followed everywhere, every minute! I hated it! ergh! I give them the look and they know I will smack the crap outta them!'... Again, my mum was beyond beautiful at my age with her classic Ceylon looks and my dad was awesomely disco cool,lord knows the afro is trying its best to stick around :)) My parents are definitely my style icons. My dad from the 70's, mum from the 80's. She never was a mall shopper either, always instead looking for unique pieces from boutiques. She was 108 pounds and 5'8 tall with legs that ran a mile long. Ginormous smile and almond eyes. Thing is, men still chase the hell outta her in Masjid India lanes :)) I believe neither me nor my sister hold a candle to how gorgeous she was and still is if she'd listen to me and PUT SOME CONCEALER ON!
*Part 1: Mother's Day Extravaganza - Melaka - Malaysia *
So, HAVE YOU MET MY MUM?She can make you pee in your pants with one look. Pretended that her occupation was teaching at my school so I would always score number 1-3 all through primary school. She makes the most awesome Ceylonese meals... when people say my mum cooks best... puhleeeeese try my mums food. Snuffles is her boyboy. When she gets mad, flee for your life, whatever's next to her will come crashing on your arse! She is the breadwinner of the family and an extremely intelligent woman that doesn't easily suffer fools. She's the balancing optimism to my dad's life based on reality. If I wanted to be President, she'd say 'Why not?'... thus, I never ever second guessed my dreams. Always achievable as long as the effort was put in. Oh and she has extremely high standards for the men that yearn to date me or BooBoo... you want in our family? Please her first :P
My aunts are more like extended mums to me. As I've said, all us cousins grew up under one roof with 4 mums to cook, spank and get us goodies. To honour them, we take them on a trip to MELAKA, BANDAR BERSEJARAH!
Two cars on the go, M.A.D 5**0 *yep, my car... heads to MMU Melaka to get my CIMB account shut. WHY? Maybe because it's built on stone age technology... the staff is polite but so inefficient... I have to go all the way to Melaka to make one small ATM card because they just can't seem to post it. I WAITED FOR 3 HOURS FOR ONE CARD BECAUSE THEIR SYSTEM HAD HANGED! ARGH! In the end, my card was ready... I needed RM12 to pay for it... I head down to MMU's Maybank ATM to get the money... GUESS WAT? THE BLOODY MAYBANK ATM NOW EATS MY CARD :'( psssst: Someone doesn't want me spending more $$$ :-O
My mum was furious, it was 4pm before we headed out for our Mother's Day special and join the rest of the Kandiah Clan... MORE NEXT TIME!
ps: That white car mum and dad are getting out of is MIIIINEEEE! How? Nice? I want to paint it red but lets see how things go :))
Yes, so I'm going to turn 25... everyone keeps reminding me... difference is I LOVE GETTING OLDER... I've only grown wiser, more confident, sexier with age. Muahaha, I just hope to continue to have the worlds perkiest arse and boobs at 50 :P
Things I would tell my 18 year old self:
1. YOU ARE COOL- Firstly, a girl has no idea of her self worth at that age. I was absolutely sure those girl with their halter tops and men with cars, clubs and ciggarates were way cooler than I ever was or will be. All through my years in Uni, being the city girl... other citygirls tend to want you to join em. As the years went by, one notices that parties tend to kill your looks aging you sooner than expected... spaghetti straps with rips here and there won't make you look hot, just skanky in your twenties... men want you for all the wrong reasons... I'm glad I stuck to my guns. I'm glad I love fashion not luring men. I'm glad I love PCs. I'm glad I never bought into 'No one's taught you how to appriciate wine and alcohol' crap. I'm glad I CHOSE THE FRIENDS I DID :)
2. YOU AREN'T THE FATTEST or UGLIEST PIGGILY PIG IN THE WORLD- I've gained confidence through the many many art competitions, plays, dramas, choirs, MC-ing done whilst growing up. Maybe it's the fact that my father always told me and my sister we were beautiful. The moment of self doubt came when a girl is tossed into a house filled with other women that pick and probe at every fault instead of celebrating the positives. I now know that beauty radiates from confidence and just being friendly. You'd be surprised how many people just love a smile and a kind heart. I'd tell her... you won't believe how well you'd turn out :P Never a day goes by without a reminder as to the universal fact of beauty, smile and love. IF ALL ELSE FAILS, I ALWAYS SHINED MY MEGAWATT SMILE.
3. YOU ARE NOT STUPID OR JUST FAKING IT- I was primed for academic success from preschool. My parents dished out the money necessary for the best schools. I knew I was smart, generally better than average due to the privileges given to me. I chose the world of 'fun fun fun' in high school... lord knows how the road led me to engineering school. The day came when my life changed forever, me & BFF Gaya in a room. She turns and says 'My brain's bigger than all of yours put together!'. Hah, I was never one to back down from a challenge. Also, LORD WAS I BLOODY ANGRY...HOW DARE SHE! Seems only I that believe I was smart and no one else. I've locked myself in a room to decipher formulas, slept on tables, lived on coffee and slowly starting to love what I was reading. HERE I AM TODAY :) I LOVE HER FOR IT. We would have never been friends otherwise.
4. YOU ARE NOT THE BLACK SHEEP OF THE FAMILY- My father says I've changed. I think not. They have grown to realise as my sister says 'Crazy Bimbo with a brain' is who I am and it actually works to my advantage most times :P People never expect me to be a scholar... I generally do not feel the need to break into intelligent gibberish just to prove I'm not dumb. You assume, I thus easily succeed with the lack of expectation :P The toughest road for a girl, is TO NOT CONFORM. The media says 'Be thin, be giggly, be girly, be cute, not too huge a brain, men are your heroes, play the damsel in distress well'. I think the best think about hitting 25 years old is I've some what struck a balance between fun and work. I'm still buzzing with excitement and love what I do daily.
5. GOING CORPORATE ISN'T THE ONLY CHOICE - I always had the dream of being a 'ice cold bitch' in a corporate suit with her gorgeous briefcase. I dreamt of swimming in money. Jetting across countries. Leading the team to victory. Saying ' I want my orange mocha frappuccino hot'. I want a safety net for my family, a stable job. PROBLEM IS, I'M A HAPPY PERSON. I do not do well with waking up early mornings. I do not, DO NOT like taking orders from numbnuts. I loathe the cubical, rat race back biting, retrenching, in a little bubble world. I know I'd be great at it... just unhappy. So hey, who knew... I'D END UP WANTING TO TEACH :)) It is by far the most rewarding. The impact I make each day makes me believe that the perks I get in life are because of the job I do!
6. MR.RIGHT WILL TAKE A BACKSEAT FORAWHILE- It's not the case of UGLY BETTY. It's the case of me being too bimbotic for nerds. Me being too nerdy for jocks. So... I'm still sitting and waiting. Funny how so many hot, sexy women (pretty much all my gal pals) are still single because men are too intimidated and prefer the 'just like my mum' type. For god sakes, you need a partner of strength to succeed! So, I date and I try to fit the pieces. For now, I concentrate on what is in front of me. I believe in romance. I believe in always having the best! I will only settle for that :) Also, I'd tell her 'BOYS COME AND GO... YOUR GIRLFRIENDS ARE ALWAYS THERE!'. I've been blessed in so so many ways... if I have to wait for a little longer for this one, so be it.
I've always had HUGE Bday parties ever since I was a wee lil Prem being the oldest and most hyper grandchild and all. It comes with being the first child territory. In fact, I had multiple parties just for my 21st Bday :)) So, question is... WHAT DO I DO FOR MY 25TH BDAY? I've already been called on for 'When the party, Prem? Aren't you throwing a party?'. I THINK I WANT TO DO SOMETHING FOR MYSELF INSTEAD... You know, a small token of appriciation for sticking by my guns and achieving the tiny successes I have today.
1. I now look like a respectable bimbo - roots dyed golden brown... mani pedi raunchy red... fabulous new wardrobe pieces... hair treatment for frizzy sun burnt hair... eye bag concealer restocked! I've got the most gorgeous pair of studded heels! Red tulip skirt! More basic lycra tees from Ruffey *shout out to YiFen for free RM10 voucher! Belts!
2. Malls - I've been everywhere! You know you're rememberable when sales assistants and cafe owners remember you. More than a few boutiques actually asked me the same question 'Lama tak nampak ya... Mana?'... then I say 'Exam... baru habis... dah satu bulan tak jalan-jalan'. Old town boss 'You remember me anot? Last time you always come wan!'.
3. Staying away from campus - Hell no... I'm not going back to that place unless duty calls!
4. Driving - I LOVE AUTO! It's like driving a freaking T.O.Y car! I've been practicing with the men of the family around UM... round and round the merry go round. I was so afraid I'd been duped since I got the ride at a great price... God bless the mechanic says I've got a great sale :)
5. Sleeping & Eating :)) - I've just been sleeping... sometimes it's extremely druggie like... I don't know where I am... What time it is... I'm just zZzZzZz ing. I wake up in a daze... then plop down and keep snoring. I've been hitting all the regular mamak, restaurants and basic peejay hotspots in my new ride :P
Here's some pics of my last day in Indon, Jakarta. This is Taman Mini Indonesia. It literally means a 'Mini Indon'. It's like a theme park that has sections dedicated to Indon's many many states. If you need a lesson on history, geography or just plain art appriciation, I highly recommend this spot. Suprisingly most Indons go there just to sit and hang out... its just the tourists that are whizzing from spot to spot. The thing is, its really huge so preferably bring a car. I walked all the way and got my arse burnt like hell!
Interesting fact is, make sure you are an adventurous lot! Each state has its own museum. You must climb up and admire the wedding sets for each culture. What their formal wear looks like. The weapons they used.
You see a pattern of extreme influence on the west of Indon where the people looked extremely Indian whereas on the east, the people looked fairer and had slightly Chinese features. Facinating! IT'S LIKE CANDYLAND FOR NERDS... KNOWLEDGE IS POWER!
Since Porkchop was back in Msia and I was on my own... I set my own pace... sipping TEH BOTOL from place to place as I look into the lake. Towards the front where a row holds a Buddist temple, Hindhu temple, Orthodox Catholic Church, Protestant Church, Mosque are all side by side.... it makes you think of the possibilities of a better Malaysia :)
How cute is that!
Mini Prambanan and Borobudur! Yes, I iz burnt
ps: I know I've said this a thousand times but... I loved Java and will backpack there again! The people are so friendly. I know Msians are not ready for 'pauper-dom' but though a poor country, it's filled with heart. It's tourism is not fancy beaches or shopping but the people itself. BALI IS OVERATED! Everywhere I went, I learnt that everyone has a story to tell! They just gravitate towards you as long as you smile at them. My heart goes out to the people of Banda Acheh, only once speaking to the people did I realise the enormity of the tsunami. I wobbled in the sun... Indons kept yelling 'Mana?'...'Malaysia'.... my fav question of the day was a granny 'Kahwin anak saya?'... I was like :-0
pps: I WANT TO KILL THOSE PULAU KETAM RESIDENTS... lemme see you try to toss your babies into the swamp because you have too many mouths to feed ( at the age of 12, I camped out at that very swamp and I tell you it's death for animals because it's muddy and the tide is high at times)... OTHER ANIMALS POO AS WELL! OTHER ANIMALS ARE IN NEED OF BATHS AS WELL... WHY JUST DOGS? Dogs are living creatures with feelings too. They love you beyond all reason. YOU ALLOW THEM TO DROWN? STARVE TO DEATH? Snuffles is no animal to me... he's my flesh and blood brother! Lord knows these dogs will go to a happy place which is more than I can say for you lot. KARMA'S A BITCH! YOU IGNORANT INHUMANE UNEDUCATED UNFEELING PEOPLE D.I.S.G.U.S.T ME!
"The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the ways its animals are treated" - Mahatma Gandhi
Yipppiiieeeedeeeddooodah! So, I HAVE TWO WHOLE FREAKING MONTHS OF gimme a H. gimme a O. gimme a L...blah blah H.O.L.I.D.A.Y!!!! What to do? What to do? It's not the case of what to do really, but what do I do first?
1. MAKEOVER!
OMG... I swear, my classmate asked me before my exam 'Prem, you don't look well...Sick?' Let me see, try spending every waking moment with your head shoved between Einstein's Coefficients and lets see you still smell like roses :P I WANNA... Chop my hair *Curlier! Highlight my hair *Shinier! Do my nails *hoochiemama red as usual! GO TO THE FREAKING GYM!
I am clearly suffering from shopping withdrawal! Shop! Shop! Shop! Shoes! Glorious Shoes! Come on over, me and the usual girly gang will be there sharp 12! Just down the road from my place. Aaaaaaah, I live in such an awesome area. Never thought I'd be one to be invited to fashion parties :P
2. TRAVEL
I'll be off to Cambodia + Vietnam twice! Weee... Ho Chi Minh + Siam Reap for June, Hanoi and Pnomph Penh for July! A girly trip to Cameron Highlands for tea and scones as I twirl and sing 'The hhhiiiillllsss are aliiiiive!' Sound of Music style. Foodie delight to Melaka to deal with my stone age CIMB bank account in MMU. I want to head to the beach too! PENANG!
3. PONDER
I've been on the constant go... a huge blur... whizzing by... for the 2 years. I need to stop and P.O.N.D.E.R. The decision I make now will determine my entire life course. What do I picture myself doing in the distant future? (Does sipping a mocktail by the pool as I ogle at the lifeguard count?)
I need to decipher my Mr.Premeela issues which always seem to involve the usual female crisis... Dum Dum Dum... 'White knight versus Dark Prince'. I TRIED... I TELL YOU I TRIED... I TRIED TO CHANGE... Being in 'NERDLAND' means an infinite choice of nice boys. Muahahah, I like...okay, really drool worthy... the leather clad, ruff ruff, macho manly man (Have you seen Hugh Jackman's Wolverine poster :-O) I blame it on my mum. So which do I really want? Simple really, without over thinking... a fabulous blend is what I need :)
Also, I NEED TO DEAL WITH MY LACK OF LOVE FOR FINANCES *groans. I must go to BORDERS, read up and plan my portfolio. Money doesn't grow on trees.
4. LIKE DUH... SCOUT FOODIE DELIGHTS
Exam mode means... crappy food. What can one find in between midnight - 7am but non nutricious mamak food. My dad's catch phrase 'WAN KFC?' Chuckle chuckle. I despise KFC! Poor chickens, factory bred, slaughtered. I've spotted a ton of fab cafes and restaurants I'd love to take my time, dress up, and head out for the night. Just to make up for the lack of pretty during finals mode, I think I'll be an absolute diva. I AM SOOOO CRAVING FOR ANYTHING CHOCOLATEY ;)
5. DRIVE MY SWANKY OLD/NEW CAR
Singsong voice... I am gonna paint the town red... just me and 'I haven't named my macho car yet'... We're gonna go to the mall, see us flash here and there. Aaaaaah, I'm just so in denial when it comes to the petrol cost. Just got it formally registered under my name :) It's in granny's house now. I'M GONNA LET YOU IN ON A LIL SECRET... Guess how I knew it was the car for me? Number plate: MAD 5**0 :PAlso, I gotta service my car, send it to get painted, insurance, registration, learn to drive it... all in all... 2 months should be just right :)) I'LL PUT THE PICTURES UP ONCE IT'S PERFECTLY DONE!
6. THESIS & PhD APPLICATION
Lastly, invent something new :) Radar for Breast Cancer detection must reach completion! MMU here I come!!! *tears...sniff sniff... Oh, how I've missed you. The windy roads, ridiculous lack of entertainment and just to laugh at students waiting at the bustop like old times.
ps: Studying this time around for finals surprisingly wasn't a pain in the arse. Being given time off to actually enjoy what I was learning... felt like the good old days of undergrad. I cancelled everything... all that is work and money to focus... allows me to be my natural curious cat self... thus happy to gulp tons of coffee and light the night lamp. It's been a surreal month. If I do well, great... if careless mistakes were made... it's okay... I loved it anyways :)
pps: Also, was telling mum & dad the other day. It's such a weird feeling to one day be standing in Ayuthaya's ancient ground across the most beautiful lake filled with pink lotus flowers, or hiking up Surabaya's most breathtaking volcanic view, maybe whizzing about Jakarta's airport in a mini kart with a policeman, hopping up and down to 'Lovers in Japan' Coldplay Spore Live and next be sitting in a lab smack in the city another day :))
So, it's a few hours away from the moment I finally add Premeela BEng. MEng. to my already loooooong name. Yes, it's over. NOW WHAT?
My life had led to this moment. THE FINAL STAGE OF THE LEGENDARY PREMEELA SAGA! Time has just whizzed by. I still feel like a kid really, still learning the ropes. I'm glad I've done it all young, peak of my ability to live on multitasking and little sleep. This means, I've only got one way to go now...UP! Where will I go? What opportunities will be tossed my way? Who will I become? Am I smart enough? Am I able to conquer the industry? WILL I SUCCEED? He says to me 'You may be a scholar in your country but we have higher standards here'.
Do I want it oh so badly? YES Will I be given the choice to achieve it? MAYBE,THAT'S A SAD FACT Do I choose to compare myself to the rest? No, I am the best! I'll show you! Economy in crisis or not!
I now await for the chance to prove I deserve the title Dr. Premeela BEng. MEng. PEng. ;)
ps: Hah, my friend he says to me 'Cuteness doesn't work at this stage anymore'. I'm a teeny bit afraid of rejection. I don't know what it's like to be rejected yet. Never have I been turned down since preschool. I always find my way in by hook or crook! Pffft, if all else fails... being charming always works :P I'll do a lil dance, make a lil love and get down tonight! Truly, couldn't have done it without you, You and YOU :)
pps: Seriously, I'll never be one of those women/men where it's either or. What one would call the typical Asian woman mentality. It's CRAP thinking there isn't anything more than finding Mr.Right, popping out babies and spending the rest of your life serving others. I swear I wanted to swat your head when you said 'There's more to life than finding a man and spreading my eggs?' (Hilarious fact: There even are men with 'More to life than finding a woman and having babies?' Damn Asian dramas, portraying dancing around trees is what university is for ) You say that with such ignorance. Being a mum and wife is the hardest job in the world but why educate yourself or have a career then? Dooofus! I .... I... intend to be an extremely well paid boss of all bosses, reaching my fullest potential, finding Mr.Right, popping out babies and spending my life serving my family. You CAN do it all with a little effort and help from loved ones. OBAMA strikes that balance doesn't he! Soooo can you! HAH! TAKE THAT! KKKIIIISSSS MY GOLDEN CHUTNEY!
*Day 3 - Pitsanulok North Thailand / Asthma Awareness *
* MY RESPONSIBILITY = ASTHMA AWARENESS *
Since my Thailand trip came shortly after my Indon trip... I prided myself on handling the lack of comfort in trains for the sake of saving on $$$. Believing it to be the same in Thailand, I was pleasantly surprised when I realised that the trains in Thailand were soooo uber cheap compared to the buses. WHY? I LATER FOUND OUT.
Me and BooBoo head out to this gorgeous... I mean gorgeous floating restaurant with a view of Ayuthaya's bridge and main river. I had the best ever green chicken curry here, steamed with seafood in fresh coconut. Delicious coffee... I had to have it twice! We sat together, watched the sunset in Ayuthaya and planned for the days to come. Its only day 2... feels like we've known Ayuthaya for ages.
We get dropped off by our tuk-tuk tour guide family, so gracious and has just taught me so much about the meaning of life (*pppssstt... $$$ isn't happiness). We wait for our train. Delayed, men oogling at me and BooBoo forcing us to stay put and not explore the station. Train arrives, looks reasonably well maintained from the outside... we get seats right in front with ample leg room.
Here's where it all went wrong for me :( I'm a reasonably fit person, I don't get the flu often, don't get headaches/tummy aches/booty aches... You could say that my first 10 years of life battling severe asthma has gotten me an extremely good immune system :)) It's a big part of my life having spent most of my childhood drugged in a hospital. I'm extremely comfortable in a hospital really. So, its been years since I've had an attack and I have yummy sips of the 'asthma trigger' coconut juice prior to the train ride. This train ride lasts for a whole fabulous 7 hours... this train ride has no windows, just huge gaping holes between its metal walls, THIS TRAIN could kill people. You freeze to death, children cry because the cold air gets in them, the loo is just a hole in a box. You're supposed to balance your arse as you pee... WTH! I'm a strong person, but I CANNOT STAND THE COLD. My sexy Zara trench coat was no help at all.
We arrive in Pitsanulok, zombie like... the train ride was supposed to be our bed for the night but neither of us slept. We wobbled to the nearest hotel, demanded a room at 6am, dragged ourselves up to the room and drank packets of steaming hot vanilla tea to warm up. Few hours later we wake up, have breakfast and TAKE A BLOODY BUS INSTEAD to Sukhothai, UNESCO's World Heritage Site.
The next day, in a span of few hours... as one would guess... I spiral down a road of flu = fever = cough = asthma = hospital bed = drugged = parents & family will most probably kill me if the asthma doesn't. The problem was I left my medication at home. Its been so long I've forgotten how horrible bad it gets...NEVER AGAIN.
ps: Asthma awareness. I've battled asthma for years, its hereditary in my family. Each patient is triggered by a different allergic reaction. For me, its dust, cold weather, and extreme coughs. Once an attack occurs, your airways shut and time is crucial. Asthma victims die due to the fact that people around the victim fail to realise the seriousness of the attack because you really cannot estimate how bad it really is. YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN. My friends have no idea of its impact, YOU TRY BEING UNABLE TO BREATHE... now tell me thats not the worst thing in the world. Times, I cannot walk because I cannot breathe. All one can do is cry for help. The enormity of the attack doesn't show on the outside, the only sign is massive wheezing. If you hear a whistling sound as you breathe, the attack is upon you now.Always carry your medication when traveling (Ventolin inhaler) and for major attacks have higher dosage pills with you always.
Head to your nearest hospital, do not assume the possibility of being unable to breathe in just minutes. In Thailand, the day I knew I was doomed, the local hospitals and clinics were having a day off (Yes, I know...WTH!) God bless, one private hospital in mainland Bangkok was open. Pharmacies said 'No more stock', I was mortified... keeping calm not to send my sister into a panic spree... I got to the hospital just on time, the attack was so severe I was fed steroids and double inhaler.I don't know why I took it lightly, I don't know why I forgot my medication, I guess I maybe thought what I always do, I'M INVINCIBLE! N.O.T obviously.
pps: It's funny, no one talks about it. I've knows friends for years and only later on find out we've all had the same childhood of hospital parties and being pricked in the arm for blood samples. The endless walk towards the emergency room. The fear of being helpless. It like being on the same reality TV show together.
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